Writing a real bondage playmate ad.
In my younger, and perhaps more care free days, I met several people on the internet,
some of whom I had relations with, some I didn’t. This was back in the early dates of internet dating. Now though there is a whole explosion of sites to join and hopefully find some to do the most nice awful things to you as well as put up with your bad habits 
Browsing around though, you can see where people have put the effort in, and where they havent. This is the differentiator between the successful and not successful, or to put it bluntly, getting some and not getting some!
So in my ever public spirited mind, I have composed a little blog post on finding your bondage playmate. It has worked for me in the past and to be honest, the most important bits never change.
1. Be honest. “No shit” I hear you say, well the amount of ads I have seen that come from people who really either have no clue or are blatently lying is quite staggering. Imagine meeting someone, getting on with them like a house on fire and then saying you really really aren’t an experienced Master or Mistress, makes you out to be a liar and a dick, so just don’t. Ok. There is no shame in admitting your new, we all had to do to it some time. You will get more respect and a higher probability of fun if you are honest.
2. Dont use txt speak m8. It sounds kinda obvious but you will get a lot further with a well written advert with correct spelling and grammer. Ladies are especially put off by bad spelling, or grammer. It’s not good. IF, like me you are a bit crap at grammer, write up your advert text in Word or your word processor, spell check it, then copy and paste it into the web page. It’s easy and it only takes two seconds to get it looking right.
3. Be creative. Ok, I would be the first to admit that I am not the most interesting of people in day to day life, but you have to jazz it up and be honest but give it a bit of pizzaz, use descriptive words, emphasise your great points. Talk yourself up a bit. Have a unique selling point. What makes you different. Why should this sexy Domme choose you over the other guys? Be unique thats how.
4. Write plenty. This, my friends is super important. There is nothing more frustrating than liking the look of someone, clicking and reading and having a two line about me section. A few paragraphs should be a minimum. TOP tip - Mention what you could do for your partner, not just what you would like done to you In the bedroom or out !
Here is a site that I recommend, and more to the point, its free (an added bonus
