Using pain in S&M and bondage
Sado fun. Doesn’t sound like fun. Well then, you have just been doing it wrong. If it wasn’t fun we wouldn’t do it! Nipple clamps for example can be used as a little taster. Ok so i’m such a raging pervert that I like them a little weighted so they pull a little harder. What I am trying to express in my own way is that torture can be fun. Pain can also be used as punishment, as a control tool, or behaviour modification (This is all for pleasure btw, in not advocating using it to bad ends)
One example of being used as a control is that sometimes Mistress likes me on all fours. I don’t like this. It kind of embarrasses me, humbling even. So to keep me on edge but on all fours she usually uses nipple clamps that are tightly connected to my chute so that should I try to get up, my nipples are really really going to hurt (That is if I don’t have to pick them off the floor 
) because severe doesn’t come into it.
This way I know that if I start to get pissy and try and stand up, it will hurt. Therefore I don’t do it. When Mistress wants me on all fours with my butt in the air she gets it! I guess you could call it minor behaviour modification, but I don’t mind if it improves me
